Heyho!!
Long time no blogging ya? So, how have you been, friends? Hope everything goes well with you!
Today’s post is about “when ugly duckling turned into a beautiful princess”
Truth be told, before, I’m not a person you see me today. I was a selfish, introvert, inferior, geek, ugly, and all the things you won’t see in me today *fingers-crossed*
Truth be told, I’m still the same me actually, but not really the same. Confused? I’m the same old brand new me! *err… still a bit confusing, eh?*
I had several life-changing experience who turned me from an ugly duckling into a beautiful princess
(sorry for my narcissistic side
)
Beauty
1. Teeth
Before, I have an ugly shaped teeth. In Indonesia, we call it “tonggos”, or, in short, my teeth sorta like Ronaldinho (a football player from Brazil, just google him). Actually, not as “tonggos” as him, but well, pretty much similar laa.. Probably, I never really experience love until university year because of my ugliness… LOL..
So, my life changing experience was when I put brackets on my teeth. It really boost up my confidence. Please kindly see my picture on the bottom below.
2. Skin
My Skin was imperfect, even until now. I often get pimples and also darker tone if my skin is exposed to the sun directly. So, what really changes my attitude towards this? PESONA magazine. When I was in high-school, I never clean my face. Really. Whenever my friends clean their face with soap, or cleansing foam, or whatever you call it, I never use it.
No wonder I got pimples and darker skin tone, right?
But since I read several fashion magazines, especially PESONA magazine, I learned that cleaning your face is A MUST! and don’t worry to buy local products! I used Sariayu for my face cleansing utilities, La Tulipe for my compact powder, Viva eyebrow pencil, and Wardah for my lipstick. Viva La Indonesian products! Those products are highly recommended!
I also was enlightened by my lovely Mam Junita, that she taught us we were constructed by those opinions that lighter skin equals beauty, so, we should not be constructed in that way, we should however construct our own way, whichever way we are comfortable with. Soooo, I decided to accept my brownish skin
Anywaaaay, Beautiful is again only about feeling. If we feel that we are beautiful, it’ll show by itself. Smile a lot can also perfected your imperfections!
Brain and Behaviour
As I’ve mentioned you before, I was a geek, meaning by geek prolly you’ll say that I’m a brainiac. Well, I never reckon myself as a brainiac, but I do love playing Sudoku, and when I was a Sudoku addict, I couldn’t even sleep without playing Sudoku first.
I’m grateful that God gave me a good, attached, intact, brain inside my head. This is a very-very IMPORTANT asset in my life. So, really am grateful, God.
stay hungry, stay foolish
Those words, I quote from Steve Jobs, and it really moved me in a way that, even I got a great capability in thinking, but I should never consider myself as smarter than other people. Knowledge is there to be learned, to be shared, don’t use it as a show-off.
Even we can learn a lot from a garbage man (tukang sampah). We should never underestimate others.
I change my habit from being a geek and introverted to humble *hopefully* and open-minded when I first encountered AIESEC. It’s an organization that helps me face the reality, different people, different point of view, and many challenges. I learned that we should never disrespect people by their background of faith, races, and so on since in AIESEC, I learn that all of us are family. I could go to Taiwan for an internship to extend my network and also family! Really! I have a lovely “grandma” there.
So, God gives us brain in order for us to learn about others and show respect for them. If you want to be considered smart, you also should show it in your attitude.
well, that’s all folks!
My writings is still felt like blabbering, I know, but hopefully I’ll manage this later on.
Hope you understand what I’m trying to imply.. LOL..
Have a nice weekend!
Sarah Budiyani

